Hebrews 5:1-4
For every high priest taken from among men is appointed on behalf of men in things pertaining to God, in order to offer both gifts and sacrifices for sins;
he can deal gently with the ignorant and misguided, since he himself also is beset with weakness;
and because of it he is obligated to offer sacrifices for sins, as for the people, so also for himself.

This is the spiritual example of dealing with people, I have failed in this many times. Gentleness is the weapon we use to deal with each other. We are also weak and we want God and others to deal gently with us. Gentleness is love pouring out on others!